The bigger person always wins.
And holding grudges — like Gary says — is useless. It’s a waste of time and hurts you more than the person you’re mad at.
Nothing bad ever comes from being the bigger person. You’ll never regret being the one to forgive, reach out, and mend a broken relationship.
Fact is, when you’re 90 years old and lying on your death bed…the only thing you’re going to regret is the inordinate amount of time you spent being angry when all you had to do was say, “I forgive you.”